How does one succeed in life?
08.06.2025 00:27
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Why does a narcissist act like it's nothing when they hurt you?
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
That's it for today.
How do you handle your mother-in-law after you heard her talking badly about you in the next room?
Hangs out with loser friends.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Making more friends is a goal.
Do not set goals—set systems.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
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Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Does not procrastinate.
Can we state Alia Bhatt as the most versatile actress in Bollywood now?
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Isn't it a turn on to have sex with a girl in a skirt or in a tight spandex?
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
What does 'Whose flesh is like the flesh of donkeys’ mean (Ezekiel 23:20)?
What I need from you?
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
What is an easy way to get your driver's license?
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
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Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
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Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Ask yourself:
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Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
What is the most offensive thing someone has ever asked you?
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Procrastinates a lot.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.